I’m more than what these ashes say
They will fade away when He comes for me
By grace, through faith in Christ I’m saved
I am not the same when He looks at me
Yeah man, I totally agree with you. Good habits can develop without a counterpart.
However, through my observations of some couples. You'll be surprised on how much a good influence a woman can have on you. Some "bad" habits do change. Its different when you meet someone that brings the best out of you.
Though I'm not refering to a totalitarian, demanding, high-maintainence creature whos spineless and whipped ways causes a man to be nothing more than a helpless manlyless servant. (A woman like that is not worth pursuing, no matter how good looking they are or the number of "sweet" or lovely dovely moments you've experience with this person)
I'm talking about positive, growing and unspoken influence that a woman can have on you. (keep in mind, no one is ever perfect) Though I have yet to experience this myself, I've seen it through so many beautiful couples.
(ie. keeping place (room) tidy, being considerate of those closest to you, patient, loving, etc...)
Its a huge CHARACTER influence. Though it may not seem big nor important now, it pays great dividends in the long run. And this influence goes BOTH ways, not just one way.
Of course, it takes time to discover a character of a person...
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Why not develop good habits without the help of a woman? I don't think women would think very highly of you if they had to fix your flaws.
Yeah man, I totally agree with you. Good habits can develop without a counterpart.
However, through my observations of some couples. You'll be surprised on how much a good influence a woman can have on you. Some "bad" habits do change. Its different when you meet someone that brings the best out of you.
I'm more surprised at how spineless men can become as they're whipped into the image their counterpart has conjured.
Myself included.
Yeah, I agree with you again!
Though I'm not refering to a totalitarian, demanding, high-maintainence creature whos spineless and whipped ways causes a man to be nothing more than a helpless manlyless servant. (A woman like that is not worth pursuing, no matter how good looking they are or the number of "sweet" or lovely dovely moments you've experience with this person)
I'm talking about positive, growing and unspoken influence that a woman can have on you. (keep in mind, no one is ever perfect) Though I have yet to experience this myself, I've seen it through so many beautiful couples.
(ie. keeping place (room) tidy, being considerate of those closest to you, patient, loving, etc...)
Its a huge CHARACTER influence. Though it may not seem big nor important now, it pays great dividends in the long run. And this influence goes BOTH ways, not just one way.
Of course, it takes time to discover a character of a person...
Haha :) I understand, I was just being difficult.
But I've found the most amazing woman! She can sing, and she moves in mysterious ways! Check out the vids on my blog!
Now... to find someone who isn't an upcoming celebrity...
This post was hilarious Sam
And wait, Jon was being difficult...oh wait, that doesn't surprise me! :P LOL...J/K don't cry man,seriously! :P
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